not our fault

We were going to take the kids sailing today but it is raining and a dead flat calm so we thought that it would be a good idea to put it off for a better day. J thought that this was not a good idea and blamed me that we were not going, as to be honest I didn't really want to go. So I said OK, go without me if your dad still wants to go, so they went Christmas shopping instead! Pah!
I hate it when J tries to make us all feel guilty. she will just have to learn that we do our best to work around everyones work time but if the weather is not cooperating it's not our fault!!